Imagine
the hall for your speech is on fire and you were able to rush to the stage to
shout directions to your audience. Will you be anxious about what to say? Will
you be thinking about your look? Obviously not. But why?
You have actually conquered self-consciousness because you have an important
message, not just to you but to your audience. The value of what you need to
say drives out all thoughts of fear.
What
can we learn from this?
Have something
to say.
Even if you are an
experienced public speaker, don’t make the mistake of not preparing well
for your speech hoping a miracle will happen. Sure a miracle will happen. The
nearest unimportant thought will fill the vacuum. Loads of questions will keep
running through your mind as you speak. You start wondering; what will I say
next? How do I look? Then you conclude, I know I will fail and you are already
failing.
Love and understand
the importance of
what you say.
When preparing your speech,
ask yourself what does my audience stand to benefit from this? What do they
already know about this topic and how can I help them further. If you love what
you say and add value to it, you gain full concentration and mastery over
yourself and your audience. Please remember that you should be more concerned
about the thoughts you are conveying to your audience and less about the
specific words you use.
You don’t have to fear your audience because they want
your presentation to be a success as much as you do. Before you say any word,
pause briefly and make eye contact with some individuals in the audience while
smiling. A reciprocated smile will put you at ease. Also throughout your
speech, speak to individuals not the whole audience and don’t pay too much
attention to frowning faces. Try to speak slowly and clearly. If you treat your
presentation as a conversation you will be able to control your anxiety.
Begin with the
end in mind.
Albert Einstein once
said “imagination is more important than knowledge”. There’s something all
great speakers and in extension all successful people in their various careers
have in common- they possess the power of imagination. They see success even
before attaining it. So as you give the final touch of preparation to your
speech, imagine yourself giving an excellent speech, see yourself holding the
attention of your entire audience. Ask yourself positive questions. Instead of
asking yourself what if I fail to give a good presentation. Ask yourself how will it
be if I give a incredible presentation? Close your eyes and envision
the quietness in the room as they listen to you. Then see them giving you a
standing ovation. This is not just wishful thinking, it works! And it has
worked for me several times.
So
what’s the point of all I have been saying? This is the point:
TALK
ABOUT WHAT YOU LOVE, UNDERSTAND AND KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR SPEECH, PREPARE
WELL, BE CONVERSATIONAL AND EXPECT SUCCESS BEFORE YOU GET IT.

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